Whether you have middle school kids or not this is a great article that puts social media in perspective:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mental-wealth/201703/why-social-media-is-not-smart-middle-school-kids
And don't forget, Social Media is only legal for ages 13 and up.
Parenting is a tough job, the Church knows this and supports you in your vocation as Christian parents. Let us know what we can do to help you!
Blessings,
Beth